When Real Love Can Hurt | Real Love Gets Its Hands Dirty | Love Talks

I believe that real love gets its hands dirty. Anybody who says they love you should get their hands dirty before they let you go off a cliff. You can't say you love me, see me destroying myself and not confront me because you are more concerned about being nice over me being healed. I can't speak for everyone but me personally? I want you to get in my mug and say 'wait a minute you are about to mess your life up'. What I am talking about is trusting God even when it hurts.

On the contrary, I have learned through experience that you can lead a horse to a body of water but you cannot make the horse drink. This is an idiom in english that means, you can show someone the way to do something, provide them with the materials and tools to do it but at the end of the day THEY are the ones who need to want to change for themselves. They have to find the motivation and take action themselves - you can't force them.